LOVE IS THE NEW COMMANDMENT (33)/ MATTERS OF LOVING INDIFFERENCE (15)/ THE KINGDOM OF GOD (1)
This Sunday service Pastor (Mrs) Silvia Lia Leigh preached another sermon in the series titled ‘Love is The New Commandment’. Her main scriptures were taken from the books of Romans 14:12-23; Matthew 18:21-35; 19:27-30; 20:1-16.
THE AGAPE LOVE OF GOD
Love is the greatest word in the Bible. In Greek, there are three words for love. Eros refers to sexual love. Philio refers to friendly attachment. Agape means unconditional sacrificial love. This Love is not just a feeling. It is the highest, most pure form of love, born not out of natural attraction or obligation, but a willful choice and a command to be obeyed. It is the unselfish, pure, powerful, and sacrificial love that desires the best in another person. This love is best expressed as the Fatherly Love of God for humanity. “For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life” (Jn 3:16). This is the Gospel: God the Father sent God the Son to become a Man and die on behalf of sinners. The unbelievers may be religious, but they do not know this agape love. Love is a gift given only to the children of God, who are saved by grace and thru faith in Christ. “Greater love has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friends” (Jn15:13). Because we are born sinners, agape love does not come naturally to us. Agape love requires faithfulness, commitment, courage, strength, wisdom, faith, and sacrifice. Agape love is the magnet God uses to attract the world to Jesus! It was so in the early church, and during all the revivals in the history of the Church! God the Father gave us His only begotten Son, to save us! God the Son gave up His Life to pay for our sins! There is no greater Love than that!!!
MATTERS OF LOVING INDIFFERENCE
The Book of Romans is a masterpiece. It is considered the best Book in the Bible and the greatest piece of literature in the world. It is written by the great Apostle Paul. Many great men of God became born again by studying this Book. It contains the major doctrines of the Gospel. In the first 11 chapters, the Apostle writes about the doctrines of salvation. From chapter 12 to the end, he writes the application of these doctrines. The first two verses in chapter 12 are the basic scriptures on the application of doctrine. “I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that you present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable to God, which is your reasonable service. 2 And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God” (Rom 12:1,2). We see that the Christian life is a life of sacrifice for the sake of Christ, to give glory to God! By faith in God’s Word, our minds are renewed and transformed. From starting as ‘babies’ in Christ, we become strong in the faith. Becoming spiritually mature is the aim for every believer. Agape Love is the engine of this transformation. The New Law of Love takes over obedience of the Law as found in the Old Testament.
In chapters 14 and 15 we find the practical application of the Gospel especially in the relationships between believers. Theologians call these principles ‘matters of indifference’ or ‘grey areas’. These are important teachings, but they are not essential to our salvation. They apply to the type of food Christians eat, the mode of dressing, the type of entertainment, the types of baptism, the type of prophecies, the importance of days and how we celebrate our faith. The major doctrines of the Bible cannot be argued about. As Christians, we all must agree on the major doctrines in the Bible, but we can lovingly disagree on these matters of indifference. If something is forbidden, it is sin. There is no need to discuss it. For example, the Bible says that adultery is sin. We cannot debate that. We now study things that are not clearly forbidden in God’s Word and our attitude to them. Over the years these things have bought much confusion, pain, and division in the Body. The church is made of many believers; some are spiritually strong, and others are spiritually weak in the faith. The first lesson we must learn is that the Body is One!!! The strong ones are commanded not to despise the weak ones. The weak are commanded not to judge the spiritually strong. Lesson: Matters of indifference should never become central doctrines. We study these teachings so that we behave better, we love without quarreling or causing division in the Body. Selah!
These are some laws of agape Love:
1-NEVER BE A STUMBLING BLOCK TO ANYONE. DO NOT GRIEVE YOUR BROTHER.
2-DO NOT REJECT FOOD- PRAY! ALL FOOD IS CLEAN AND GOOD
3-NEVER DISCRIMINATE PEOPLE
4-DO NOT MISUSE YOUR FREEDOM TO DAMAGE YOUR GOOD TESTIMONY
5-DO NOT DAMAGE YOUR CONSCIENCE AND THE CONSCIENCE OF YOUR NEIGHBOUR
6-DO NOT LET YOUR GOOD BE SPOKEN OF AS EVIL
7-DO NOT LET BITTERNESS GROW IN YOU
8-LOVE CONTROLS AND LEADS KNOWLEDGE (THE SPIRIT LEADS THE SOUL)
9-THE SAINTS PERSEVERE BY GRACE AND THRU FAITH UNTIL HEAVEN
THE KINGDOM OF GOD (1)
“For the kingdom of God is not eating and drinking, but righteousness and peace and joy in the Holy Spirit” (Rom 14:17).
Apostle Paul reminds us about the Kingdom of God. It is easy to get lost in detail, until we forget the main issue. Matters of indifference are not as important as the central revelation that we are citizens of the Kingdom of God. “For our citizenship is in heaven, from which we also eagerly wait for the Savior, the Lord Jesus Christ” (Phil 3:20). The Kingdom of God is defined as the rule and reign of God done by His Word and thru His Spirit. The Lord Jesus Christ is the King of this Kingdom. “He has on His robe and on His thigh a name written: KING OF KINGS AND LORD OF LORDS” (Rev 19:16). Let us not get distracted by other matters and forget our King!
To understand the Kingdom of God, we’ll study the kingdoms of this world. These are symbols of the Kingdom of God. An earthly Kingdom is defined as a territory (domain) governed by a King (or a Queen). The King has absolute dominion and influence over the people in his domain. Dominion refers to the authority and domain refers to the territory. Every king is automatically the ‘lord’ or master over the people in his domain. The King is not voted by people. He becomes a King by birth. Because his father was a king, the heir is born with the right to be king after his father dies. The king is totally different than the president of a country, a prime minister, a governor, or a mayor. By right, the king personally owns the land, the wealth, and the people. Remember that kings and property always go together. For example, Jesus is the King and Lord of all. “The earth is the Lord’s, and all its fullness, The world and those who dwell therein” (Ps 24:1).
Authority flows from the king by his word, which is supreme. The kingdom reflects the glory of the king. If the king is godly, just, honest, the kingdom will be the same. If the King is corrupt and wicked, the kingdom will be the same. The constitution of the country is the covenant the king makes with his people. It expresses the will of the king concerning the people. The King provides all that the citizens need to live a good life. The King is personally responsible to take care of his citizens. That is why many want to become citizens of a good Kingdom. The King can give any gift to any of his citizens. He owns everything, so he can give any privilege, title, or wealth to any citizen he finds faithful. “When the king smiles, there is life; his favor refreshes like a spring rain” (PV 16:15; NLT).
As of 2024, there are 43 sovereign states in the world that have a monarch (king or queen) as their head of state. In Europe there are 12 countries ruled by kings (or queens). Among them are The United Kingdom, Belgium, The Netherlands, Norway, Sweeden, Spain, and Monaco. The Pope is like a king in the Vatican. Some of the Muslim monarchies are Saudi Arabia, Jordan, Kuwait, Malaysia. In the past, most of the countries in Africa were ruled by kings who were the heads of state. But now, most African countries are republics. A republic is a form of government whose leader is freely and democratically elected by the people, as opposed to a dictatorship or monarchy. There are only three sovereign monarchies in Africa: The Kingdom of Morocco, The Kingdom of Lesotho, and Eswatini (the Kingdom of Swaziland).
King Charles III is the present King of the United Kingdom. His authority is limited. He reigns but not rules. But he still has rights above any other British citizen. For example, because of “sovereign immunity,” King Charles is exempt from criminal and civil proceedings. The law bars the police from entering private royal estates without the sovereign’s permission to investigate suspected crimes. As the British king, King Charles can travel anywhere in this world without an international passport. This is because all the British passports are issued in the name of the King. No other British citizen has this privilege. The King and other members of the royal family can drive as fast or as slow as they please when they are escorted by police officers on official royal duties. King Charles can drive any car without a license plate and without a driving license. This is because all licenses in the UK are issued in the King’s name. The King does not pay inheritance or income taxes. In the UK there is a law against racial and sexual discrimination at the workplace. But the King is exempt from this law. Any person who works for the royal family cannot file a complaint in the court about equal pay, racial or sexual discrimination.
The Bible is the constitution of the Kingdom of God. It expresses the mind and will of God. The people can become citizens of God’s Kingdom not by right, but as a privilege of grace. No one can buy his citizenship. King Jesus’ favor (or grace) to bestow citizenship is always a privilege and never a right. Once a man becomes a citizen of the Kingdom of God, his greatest desire is to please the King; to be in a right relationship with King Jesus. That attitude is called righteousness (Rom 14:17). In the Kingdom of God, King Jesus provides all you need. He said: “Therefore, do not worry, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’ 32 For after all these things the Gentiles seek. For your heavenly Father knows that you need all these things. 33 But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you” (Matt 6:31-33). The citizens love their King and obey the King’s Laws. They praise Him for His grace, wisdom, goodness, holiness, and generosity. King David said: “I will extol You, my God, O King; And I will bless Your name forever and ever” (Ps 145:1). The social culture of the Kingdom reflects the culture of the King. The King’s words and deeds influence the citizens and they want to become like him. That is why a Kingdom’s culture is different than other democratic countries. The Kingdom has an army. The King is the supreme commander. The army secures the territory and protects the citizens. In the Kingdom of God, the angels protect the citizens. “The Lord has established His throne in heaven, And His kingdom rules over all. 20 Bless the Lord, you His angels, Who excel in strength, who do His word, Heeding the voice of His word. 21 Bless the Lord, all you His hosts, You ministers of His, who do His pleasure. 22 Bless the Lord, all His works, In all places of His dominion. Bless the Lord, O my soul” (Ps 103:19-22)!
In the past, the Kingdom of God was represented by the nation of Israel. God said: “And you shall be to Me a kingdom of priests and a holy nation.’ These are the words which you shall speak to the children of Israel”(Exo 19:6). But Israel rejected their King. They crucified the Lord Jesus Christ, who came full of grace and truth. “He came to His own, and His own did not receive Him” (Jn 1:11). God said that the Kingdom will be taken away from them and given to other people. This was the topic of Jesus’ parable against the Jewish religious rulers. “Jesus said to them, “Have you never read in the Scriptures: ‘The stone which the builders rejected has become the chief cornerstone. This was the Lord’s doing, And it is marvelous in our eyes’? 43 “Therefore I say to you, the kingdom of God will be taken from you and given to a nation bearing the fruits of it. 44 And whoever falls on this stone will be broken; but on whomever it falls, it will grind him to powder” (Matt 21:42-43). The Kingdom or God must be fruitful and glorious. Glory to the King of kings!
In the New Testament, the revelation of the Kingdom of God is clearer. The church represents the Kingdom of God.
Jesus started His ministry by preaching repentance, faith in the Gospel and the Kingdom of God. “The time is fulfilled, and the kingdom of God is at hand. Repent, and believe in the gospel” (Mk 1:15). The Kingdom of God has two parts: the present time and the future time. The present time started when Jesus came to the earth. He became a man, lived, and died for sinners. He is the King of the Kingdom. All those who by God’s grace repent of their sins, and have faith in Christ crucified and resurrected, become born again. They become citizens and enter the Kingdom. In the future, Jesus will come back to earth again, not as a suffering servant but as the Victorious King of kings. He will destroy that which He has defeated on the Cross. The Kingdom of God will then be fulfilled. “The kingdoms of this world have become the kingdoms of our Lord and of His Christ, and He shall reign forever and ever!” (Rev 11:15). With the mixture of wheat and tares, the Parables of Jesus describe the present time of the Kingdom of God, and not the future when all things are fulfilled. Selah!
THE PARABLE OF THE WORKERS (Matt 19:27-30; 20:1-16)
Jesus spoke this parable to teach people about the Kingdom of God. The parable is directly connected to Peter’s question: “See, we have left all and followed You. Therefore, what shall we have?” 28 So Jesus said to them, “Assuredly I say to you, that in the regeneration, when the Son of Man sits on the throne of His glory, you who have followed Me will also sit on twelve thrones, judging the twelve tribes of Israel. 29 And everyone who has left houses or brothers or sisters or father or mother or wife or children or lands, for My name’s sake, shall receive a hundredfold, and inherit eternal life. 30 But many who are first will be last, and the last first” (Matt 19:27,30). Peter forgot that he was a sinner saved by grace. He now wanted to know what his reward will be for taking his cross to follow Jesus. He was influenced by the rich young ruler who failed the test of love. Jesus corrects him (and the others) by telling them this parable.
Lesson: Agape Love does not make demands. Love does not ask for payment, especially when you owe so much to the Lover of your soul, King Grace. Jesus promises that all who died to the world and sacrificed even the good things of life to follow Him will surely be rewarded in this life and in heaven. But there shall be many surprises. Grace rewards the humble. Love rewards the faithful.
This parable is about a rich landowner who hired laborers at different intervals, from morning till evening. He made an agreement only with those who came first, that he will pay a denarius a day. In Israel a working day was from 6 am to 6 pm. A Denarius was the usual payment for a day of labor for an unskilled worker. These were jobless men waiting to be hired to do any work. The amount of money was not too small. It was about the same as a soldier in the Roman army was paid daily. The last workers were hired at 5 pm. They only worked one hour. At the end of the day, the Landowner paid all the workers the same amount of money. The ones who came in the morning expected to be paid more, because they worked longer hours. They grumbled when they received the same amount with those who were hired later.
Let us say that in your office, you work the whole week very hard. Then your boss hires a man on Friday morning. That Friday both of you are paid the same amount of money. The newcomer is overjoyed. Will you rejoice with him? Tell the truth! The answer is No! You will be angry. You will feel cheated. This is the reaction of any sinner. Many say: It’s not fair! God is not fair! But this is the atmosphere in the Kingdom of God!
Then the Landowner said: “‘Friend, I am doing you no wrong. Did you not agree with me for a denarius? 14 Take what is yours and go your way. I wish to give to this last man the same as to you. 15 Is it not lawful for me to do what I wish with my own things? Or is your eye evil because I am good?’ 16 So the last will be first, and the first last. For many are called, but few chosen” (Matt 20:13-16). Clearly, the workers who came in the morning, did not understand the law of the Kingdom of God. They used common sense to arrive at conclusions. In God’s Kingdom, worldly wisdom will always disappoint and clash with the Kingdom’ culture. The rich Landowner is Christ, the King. Here we see that the King has supreme power. He hires workers and he rewards them as He wishes. The King owes everything, both the land and the workers. The King never makes mistakes. He is rich and free to use his riches as He wants. In the Kingdom of God, we see justice, sovereignty, and grace. Jesus is always righteous and just. He said: “You also go into the vineyard, and whatever is right I will give you”. (Matt 20:4). Jesus is not just righteous. He is Righteousness Himself. He can never do wrong. He can never cheat. He can never lie. He is sovereign in the way he calls the workers and how He pays them. Grace is always there but it manifests especially in the way he pays the ones that come at the 11th hour. They surely received more than they expected.
The ones who came first grumbled. They were not satisfied with the payment. Dis-satisfaction and grumbling are the major sins and a great danger for the believers who have worked for God for a long time. They compare themselves and their rewards with those who repented late in life. The lack of understanding of the laws in God’s Kingdom will disappoint and demote some. The ones who humble themselves and submit to the King, will be promoted, and rewarded. For example, the elder brother of the prodigal son was not happy that the father loved both of them equally. He thought he should receive more love and a greater reward for not backsliding openly. Grace pays the late comers more than they expect. God is happy when a sinner repents, even if it is on his dying bed. The grace given at that hour is amazing, to encourage the soul to enter heaven. Lesson: We should never be jealous on other people’s rewards or gifts, not compare ourselves with others. We should be found to be good and faithful servants to the end! We should not grumble when we don’t understand the ways of King Grace! We should be always grateful for God saving our souls and bringing us into His Kingdom!
IS GOD NOT FAIR? SOME PRINCIPLES OF THE KINGDOM OF GOD
When you think that God is unfair, study some of the Principles of the Kingdom:
1-God owes everything. God does not owe us anything.
2-God has done much more than we deserve. One denarius was the salary for a solider. If God has done nothing more than saving your soul, it is much more than you deserve!
3-God’s blessings do not depend on how hard we work. He blesses us by His Grace alone. His grace is sovereign! It cannot be bought!
4-Never look down on the 11th hour workers. One day, you can be in that group. When you backslide and need more grace to come home!
5-If you are saved for a long time do not look down on the baby Christians! The spiritually strong should not despise the weak in the faith!
6-Do not compare with others! Do not become jealous, ungrateful, or bitter towards God.
7-Reject the evil spirit of ‘doing business or demanding something’ from God!
8-Do not always look at what God can give to you. Look at what you can do for God, to serve Him better! In this way, you stay humble!
The landowner, was he fair, less, or more than fair? The answer is that he was more than fair. He hired men who will work very little for him (one hour). He paid them the same amount. God is always fair. God does not give us what we deserve. Because we are born sinners, we deserve to die. But God gives us mercy and grace. I have food to eat. I don’t deserve it. It is by God’s mercy. The only thing I really deserve is God’s anger, punishment, and hell. I don’t need for God to be fair with me. I need His mercy. Justice and mercy are not contradictory. Justice goes so far. From that point, mercy takes over. If anyone shows mercy to another, that is entirely to him, if, when, and how to show mercy. God is obligated to show justice but not mercy. He shows justice to everybody, but He does not show mercy to everybody. “What shall we say then? Is there unrighteousness with God? Certainly not! 15 For He says to Moses, “I will have mercy on whomever I will have mercy, and I will have compassion on whomever I will have compassion.” 16 So then it is not of him who wills, nor of him who runs, but of God who shows mercy. 17 For the Scripture says to the Pharaoh, “For this very purpose I have raised you up, that I may show My power in you, and that My name may be declared in all the earth.” 18 Therefore He has mercy on whom He wills, and whom He wills He hardens” (Rom 9:14-18). God chooses to whom He will show mercy.
How does God choose those to whom He will give mercy? This is a great question. But first, remember that there is nothing like ‘luck’ in the Kingdom of God. There is nothing like ‘lottery’ about who receives mercy. In the world people live by luck. That is why many gamble to win money. They depend on good luck. That is why the Christians should not gamble. God choses the recipients of His divine mercy according to His principles that are the laws in the Kingdom of God:
*God shows His mercy to those who ask for it. The Christians pray for healing, protection, or finances. But few people pray for mercy. Why? Because they think they are not too bad. “The tax collector, standing afar off, would not so much as raise his eyes to heaven, but beat his breast, saying, ‘God, be merciful to me a sinner!” (Lk 18:13). God gives mercy to armed robbers and rapists as they prepare to die. Many criminals became born again in the prison. When they died, they went to heaven. How do you feel about it? Angry?
*God shows mercy to those who will invest it into others. “Blessed are the merciful, for they shall obtain mercy” (Matt 5:7). In the Parable of the unforgiving, unmerciful servant (Matt 18:21-35) we see that mercy can be withdrawn when mercy is not shared to others. The king cancelled the huge debt of millions of naira to a man. But the same man could not let go of a debt of 100 naira that another servant of the king owed him. The king was angry because his mercy did not produce fruits. He revived the debt. The man was sent to prison until he pays the last kobo. This is a very serious matter. This parable also describes the Kingdom of Heaven. Mercy and kindness are highly appreciated. Any sin against mercy is severely punished. Unforgiveness is a stronghold blocking God to show you mercy. If mercy cannot flow out, it will not flow in. To forgive your enemy is very hard and painful. But it opens the way to God to show you mercy. Selah!
*God will show mercy to those who will not take it for granted. Let us say a man is caught in adultery. He got infected with a venereal disease. He cries to God for mercy. God heals him and helps him to restore his marriage. Few months later, the same man commits adultery again. And he cries for mercy again. He is a fool. “As a dog returns to his own vomit, So a fool repeats his folly” (PV 26:11). God does not show mercy to fools. After saving the woman caught in adultery, Jesus said to her: “Neither do I condemn you; go and sin no more” (Jn 8:11). Jesus commanded her to repent of her sins. If not, mercy may not be found again! God gives us mercy to help us stop sinning not to continue in sin! “What shall we say then? Shall we continue in sin that grace may abound? Certainly not!” (Rom 6:1, 2).
WORSHIP YOUR KING!
The Kingdom of God is not created in this world. The Kingdom of God comes from heaven. When Jesus came to earth, He brought the Kingdom with Him where Truth is in its constitution. Jesus is the Truth! The Kingdom of God is totally different than any other kingdom on earth. You need the revelation of the Holy Spirit to understand the authority of God’s eternal Kingdom. “Jesus answered, “My kingdom is not of this world. If My kingdom were of this world, My servants would fight, so that I should not be delivered to the Jews; but now My kingdom is not from here.” 37 Pilate therefore said to Him, “Are You a king then?” Jesus answered, “You say rightly that I am a king. For this cause I was born, and for this cause I have come into the world, that I should bear witness to the truth. Everyone who is of the truth hears My voice” (Jn 18:36, 37). Once a sinner becomes saved, he must renew his mind to be able to obey the new laws of this kingdom. He must have the mind of Christ. This is done thru the process of sanctification, by obeying God’s Word by the power of the Holy Spirit.
To enter God’s Kingdom, the sinner must become born again. Conversion is a miracle. Salvation is God’s gift, thru Grace and by faith in Christ crucified and resurrected. Religion does not save a sinner. Jesus told the religious leader Nicodemus: “Most assuredly, I say to you, unless one is born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God” (Jn 3:3). After you become born again, you need to make progress, to mature as a Christian. The fact that you are saved does not mean that automatically you will know how to behave in all situations. You need to study God’s Word, pray, attend a local church, and serve God in any capacity before you will see changes in your attitude and actions. Agape Love leads the way. The Body of Christ is One! But in the Body, there are weak Christians and strong Christians. The more you pay the price for spiritual maturity, the stronger you shall be as a Christian. Apostle Paul said: “However, we speak wisdom among those who are mature, yet not the wisdom of this age, nor of the rulers of this age, who are coming to nothing. 7 But we speak the wisdom of God in a mystery, the hidden wisdom which God ordained before the ages for our glory, 8 which none of the rulers of this age knew; for had they known, they would not have crucified the Lord of glory” (1 Cor 2:6-8). Spiritual maturity manifests as divine wisdom, which is the platform for the display of God’s glory on us. The unbelievers, the rulers of this age, though they are proud of their knowledge, they do not have this wisdom. In their foolishness and ignorance, they crucified Jesus, adding sin upon sin. They are out of the Kingdom of God.
Question: are you born again? Are you a citizen of the Kingdom of God? Is Jesus Christ your personal Savior, Lord, and King? Then humbly bow down and worship Him forever! Acknowledge His amazing Grace and unfailing Love! This is the worship of heaven: “Blessing and honor and glory and power be to Him who sits on the throne, and to the Lamb, forever and ever!” (Rev 5:13). Worship the Lord!