STOP COVETING! START LOVING! (2)
Coveting is defined as having a strong, excessive desire of envy and greed, longing to possess something that belongs to another, his property, spouse or status. It is accompanied by dis-contentment with what you currently have. Coveting is the strong desire to obtain something that God has not given you! “Do not covet” is the only commandment that can be broken on the heart level (Exo 20:17) Covetousness is not a simple desire for what others have but a selfish longing that leads to other sins like theft, adultery or crime. Coveting damages relationships thru envy and bitterness. The sin of coveting is hidden. It starts in the heart. It is not only manifested in actions but in desires and thoughts. In the Garden of Eden, Eve desired the forbidden fruit. It led to disobedience and affected all humanity. God judged and punished that sin. The antidote against coveting is faith in God’s provision and Contentment. Redirecting desires towards spiritual growth gives a godly perspective. Agape Love is the best weapon against envy and coveting. “Love does not envy” (1Cor 13:4).
“Let your conduct be without covetousness; be content with such things as you have. For He Himself has said, “I will never leave you nor forsake you. 6 So we may boldly say: “The Lord is my helper; I will not fear. What can man do to me? (Heb 13:5,6). True contentment is found not in material wealth but in Christ, in the assurance of God’s presence and His provision. God’s promise to never leave or forsake us is a source of comfort and strength, encouraging us to depend on Him rather than material possessions. To live free from covetousness means to see ourselves as stewards of God’s property on earth, love God more than loving money, support God’s work and help the needy.
Why are we warned against the love of money, greed and covetousness? Mammon, Love of money, competes with our love for God. Covetousness is idolatry (Col 3:5). It feeds dis-contentment, grumbling, making God’s provision seem insufficient. It creates a false sense of security that replaces trust in the Lord. It opens the door to many other sins: “the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil” (1 Tim 6:9-10). It blinds us to eternal priorities, chaining our hearts to the temporary. The antidote to greed is faith and confidence that God Himself is enough: “Never will I leave you.” His unchanging presence gives us what money never can buy: true peace, purpose, joy, and eternal life.
This is God’s promise: “I will never leave you nor forsake you!” God the Holy Spirit is literarily with us. “The Lord is my Shepherd. I shall not want!” (Ps 23:1). No matter the situation, Faith in God’s promise brings Peace that passes all understanding and reduces the power of anxiety. Before buying anything, pause and ask: “Will this draw my heart nearer to Christ or tempt me to rely on stuff?” Celebrate others’ blessings out loud, turning envy into intercession. You must daily replace greed with thanksgiving. “Lord, because You will never forsake me, I choose contentment right now.” Contentment grows as you seek God. The more it grows, the less room remains for restless greed.
Finally, money itself is neutral, just a tool. The heart’s attachment is the danger! God’s constant presence is greater treasure than any money. True contentment flows from trusting God for His faithful provision and protection. Men can wound and can kill but cannot change destinies. God’s omnipotence and protection surpass any earthly danger and gives strength and courage. Fight fear with Faith! Amen!
These are some visible signs of coveting:
*You do not rejoice with those who rejoice!
*You pay more attention to people’s things (their money) than to the people’s souls (hearts)!
*Your prayers for material things are not answered. This is because you pray amiss, to satisfy your flesh! Covetousness blocks prayer.
The solution is to exchange your desire for things and status with seeking God. In that way you give yourself a new vision, a new purpose in life. As God becomes your greatest desire, coveting disappears. You learn that godliness and contentment is great gain! Praise the Lord!
Note: Many Nigerians covet the life they imagine abroad. They sell their properties in Nigeria and take the risk to “Japa” (a Yoruba word meaning to escape, to run away. They base their decisions on false hopes, love of money and fear of poverty. Many are disappointed!!!
FEAR FREE
“Therefore, I remind you to stir up the gift of God which is in you through the laying on of my hands. 7 For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind” (2Tim 1:6,7). Fear is a powerful, unpleasant emotion triggered by the perception of danger. It initiates a rapid “fight- or flee-or freeze” response, preparing you to confront the danger or run away to safety. It manifests as loss of courage. Fear is not limited to physical dangers like facing a predator but manifests in other types of threats: meeting a wild animal or a snake; being in an accident; fear of failure, poverty or rejection. Anxiety or worry is a form of general fear that has no particular threat.
In the Bible, the word “fear” appears more the 500 times. Here, in Greek, the word fear is “deilia” meaning timidity or cowardice. Is an evil spirit that attacks the mind. It destroys faith in God and the courage to make progress. Fear and doubt are twins. The attack of the spirit of fear produces weakness of the body, loss of love and confusion in the mind. Fear is a tool of the devil to weaken us, to disobey God.
*God has given us Power, not just physical strength but spiritual authority and capability to fulfill God’s purposes. Jesus promises the disciples that they will receive power when the Holy Spirit comes upon them, enabling them to be His witnesses (Ac 1:8). This power shows in the bold proclamation of the gospel and the performance of miracles and equips believers to overcome challenges to live victoriously.
*God has given us Love! Jesus commands us to love God and others. This is agape love, characterized by selflessness and sacrifice, as demonstrated by God’s love for humanity (John 3:16). This love is a fruit of the Spirit (Gal 5:22) and is essential for effective ministry and relationships within the body of Christ. Love is a powerful force casting out fear, producing unity and peace in the Body of Christ (1Jn 4:18).
*God has given us sound mind or self-control! This is the ability to exercise restraint and make wise decisions. It is another fruit of the Spirit (Gal 5:23) and is crucial for living a disciplined Christian life. In the early church, self-control was highly valued, especially in contrast to the moral excesses of the pagan society. This quality helps us to resist temptation and maintain integrity, reflecting the character of Christ. It is essential for effective leadership and personal growth, to align our actions with God’s will.
To fight fear is not thru self manufactured courage, but by the power of the Holy Spirit. Paul reminds Timothy “to stir up the gift of God”. The words “to stir up” can mean “to fan into flame”, like a small fire that needs to be revived. The lesson here is that spiritual gifts require active usage and effort to be effective as ministry in the church. A dying small fire needs fresh air and movement to grow. Spiritual gifts behave the same way; if unused, they die down; if used, they blaze. This connects with the biblical principle of stewardship. Believers are called to actively develop and use their God-given abilities because God will ask for an account.
Each believer has at least one gift from God the Holy Spirit. The gift is a product of God’s Grace and not a personal talent (Jam 1:17). It was imparted at salvation and often confirmed by leaders in the church. The gift can be material or spiritual blessings to be used to serve God. Because the Giver is faithful, the gift is reliable. God never wakes up with second thoughts about what He has promised to His people. “For the gifts and the calling of God are irrevocable” (Rom 11:29). The word “irrevocable” means forever settled, impossible to change. The action is final and binding. God’s gifts and call can’t be withdrawn or annulled. This shows the faithfulness and unchanging nature of God. “I the LORD do not change” (Mal 3:6). God’s covenant with Isreal and salvation in Christ are irrevocable gifts of Grace! Selah!
God’s gifts are not temporary or conditional; they are given with a purpose and remain with us throughout our lives. We are encouraged knowing that God’s call on our lives is sure and unchanging, regardless of circumstances or our weaknesses. Even during times of doubt, failure or backsliding, God’s call and gifts are not withdrawn. We must stay faithful to God and persevere during hard times, knowing that God’s call to you has not expired. Every promise God has made stands unshaken, and utterly reliable. “For all the promises of God in Him are Yes, and in Him Amen, to the glory of God through us” (2Cor 1:20). Every promise is Yes and Amen! Not maybe! Knowing that God will not retract His call empowers you to press on even when progress feels slow. Trials are refining tools, not threats to your relationship with Him. “He remains faithful, for He cannot deny Himself” (2 Tim 2:13). Each morning, give God thanks for your gift and call on your life!
LESSONS FROM DAVID AND GOLIATH
These are some lessons taken from David as he confronted and killed the Giant (1Sam 17:1-58). David stands for Jesus, King Saul and Eliab, stand for Christian backsliders and Goliath stands for Satan. We must speak and act like David! What was David’s secret of victory?
1-David knew the heart of God! He was one with God! He was offended because God was offended. He was jealous for God’s reputation among men. “For who is this uncircumcised Philistine, that he should defy the armies of the living God?” (1Sam 17:26). Question: When was the last time you carried a burden for God and you got angry when God’s name was insulted?
2-David was spiritually prepared for battle by learning how to win in the secret place. He learned to conquer his fears. Before David met Goliath, he did impossible things in everyday life when only God was watching. He killed the lion and the bear who tried to steal his lambs. Lesson: your preparation in the quiet place will one day be rewarded by God in public!
3-David did not stop doing the right things by discouragement and criticism. David knew his father’s rejection. When Prophet Samuel came to look for the next king, David’s own father did not even call him to be considered. He also knew his brothers’ rejection. Eliab, his older brother, criticized him publicly, not privately (1 Sam 17:33). Even King Saul did not believe that David can win the Battle. Lesson: When you get ready to stand against any giant, do not look for men’s applause. Men will try to discourage you and reject you. We should keep our eyes on Jesus and the victory is sure!
4-David rejected Saul’s armour. Why? The armour was Saul’s and not David’s. David did not covet Saul’s status. David removed Saul’s armour because it was unfit, untested, and unnecessary for a battle the LORD had already claimed. The armour did not fit him (Saul was taller). David did not test it before using it. David distanced himself from Saul’s methods who was increasingly depending on outward show. Standing without the man-made armour, David is a symbol of salvation by Grace alone and not by works. David decided to trust God alone, using the sling he was used to. Have the courage to stand alone. Honor leaders but do not copy any man. Be original in your faith journey, using the gifts and skills God has given you. God can use our weakness to demonstrate His power and glory!
5-David was a humble man of Faith! He gave God all the glory! He knew God’s Word! He knew that he cannot win, but that God can kill the giant. The truth is that David did not kill the Giant. God went with the stone and knocked the giant down. Victory and glory belong to God alone! According to the promises God made to Abraham, when Goliath cursed David by his gods, God cursed him back. “I will bless those who bless you, And I will curse him who curses you; And in you all the families of the earth shall be blessed” (Gen 12:3). Lesson: When you preach, pray or prophesy, your words are your stones. May your words not fall to the ground! May God direct and activate your stones to bring down all giants opposing you! For the glory of His name! Amen! Worship the Lord!


















